Motivation is the factor that provides you energy for a motive. The factor can be anything like an object, goal, person. Motivation has two types. They are external motivation and internal motivation. Lets talk about them.
1. External Motivation
Simply, External motivation is the motivation from an external source. It involves a second party. Generally, We go to different seminars, watch motivational videos, read different article, books for motivation. They are termed as the external source of motivation.
2. Internal Motivation
Internal Motivation is the motivation which comes within a person. It involves a single party, the one who is motivated or who wants to be motivated. This motivation comes within from a person intellect and realization.
Now, Lets talk something about demotivation.
Is being demotivated bad ?
Exactly No, because being demotivated does not mean that you lose your motive completely. Staying motivated does not mean to act every time. It means to act at a right time. Being demotivated is just a break for you. There is also a perfect way of being demotivated. The way is you must be aware of your motive when you are not performing any action related to your motive. Taking rest is not bad if you don't forget your motive because most of the scientific discoveries in the past have occurred when the inventors were taking rest but they were completely aware of their motive.
Now, Lets discuss about the ways of staying motivated every time.
What are the ways to stay motivated every time ?
See, You keep on thinking " Why am I not motivated ?" all time. The reason is you are not strongly aware or serious about your future. For example I will tell you a incident. There was a very lazy man who was sleeping in his home very comfortably during the morning time and his home suddenly catches fire during 6 : 00 am in the morning. When the man notices that his home caught fire, he quickly ran out and called a fire brigade and also started throwing water on his home that caught fire. Now you see, Did the man need any kind of motivation there to run out and throw gallons of water in his house to stop fire ? Can you answer "How the man who never woke up until 10 am ever since till now woke up so quickly and also carried gallons of water to put down the fire ?" This is because he was completely aware of his future that if he will not put down the fire now, he will have no place to live in and his all property will just turn into ashes and his future will be very much difficult.
Same way, Think that "Does a student of 12th grade during his board exam needs any kind of motivation to solve the paper ?" or he say like "Oh, I am bored, I will solve this after 1 hour." Of course not because he is completely aware that if he does not solve the paper now, his future is just gonna kill him. So, you must need a reason to stay motivated and the reason is your future.
See, To stay motivated you must be focusing in your internal source rather than the external source. That means you should have a internal self feeling to stay motivated not a way to listen something from others and get temporarily charged up.
The main ways of staying motivated are given below:
Make a strong goal.
The main secret of staying motivated is creating a strong goal in your life. You must have a lust to achieve that goal in your life, not from the surface level but from your deep inside level. You must add a meaning to your life so that you can stay motivated. If you have no motive or goal in your life, there is no meaning of your existence and why you need any kind of motivation, ha.
Locus of control
Locus of control is generally the central of control. Your motivation is related to your control. No one should have the right to motivate or demotivated you according to their interest. For example, someone comes and says you " You cannot do this or you cannot do that " and if you immediately get demotivated and sad, It means the locus of control is not within you. It is with others but if you just forget those words and didn't set back, the locus of control is with you. It is the main secret of staying motivated every time. Successful people have this locus of control completely attached with themselves.
In Conclusion
See, You must know the value of time. If it is gone, then it is gone. You must do complete utilization of your time as you do of your money. You should have a full control and dependency within yourself to stay motivated every time.
I hope you have well known the secret of staying motivated. To know more on similar topics, visit www.simplelifeexplanations.blogspot.com
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